2. Do the best you can to only do stuff with someone who is in the same zone as you. That is, if you are madly in love it’s only a good idea if you’re both madly in love; if you’re just looking for giggles or an experiment, find someone else who is experimenting. It’s the imbalances that break hearts.
3. Don’t expect to get anything out of sex except sex. Sex is not a means to get love or status or intimacy or notoriety, it should be an end in itself.
4. Don’t discuss the sex life of anyone who isn’t in the room. This goes for partners, friends and enemies alike. You have a right to your own experience, nobody else’s.